Monday, February 11, 2008

i love my life


and i LOVE my husband
happy valentines day to my sweet heart
torrie-
i'm not looking for love
for now, something more
a friend and companion
to flirt with adore
not by destiny or chance
are relationships formed
but through laughter and fun
two hearts can be warmed
seeing you from a distance
be it great, or very near
my heart races so fast
excitement or fear
a beautiful girl
just happend along
coincidence? chance?
we build something strong
a jump start of my heart
has just been received
-john

Thursday, February 7, 2008

shilo mae

usually i don't leave a blog post that long but i thought the comment from my cute husband was sooo funny that i wanted to give everyone a chance to read it

so just a quick note on how funny my little girl is...
  • there is a picture of shilo and i at her friend rachels birthday party a year ago or so on the fridge- shilo says"you look skinny" i said "then- or now?" and she says "both!" sweet girl!( maybe me telling you about this will make sarah, rachels mom, who reads my blog and doesn't leave any comments- leave a comment!!!!!!)
  • yesterday in the car- while in the pouring rain shilo says "it looks like were driving in a glass of water" so true...
  • a lady standing at the corner in ballard- while waiting at the light- says "you are georgeous!"{ to shilo of course} shilo replies "thanks for noticing... "what a crack up!
  • last week she tells a little boy in the store who is pitching a fit about leaving without getting something "you should learn patience" then turns to me and says "right mom? i think the mom was more embarassed than i- afterall, it was her child making the scene...and shilo was right...
  • she tells chastin- while doing puzzles with him- "that's a bunch of nonsense chastin"

when did she start paying attention to the world and everything around her? she makes me smile, she makes my heart swell with joy, and my belly ache with laughter.

btw- here new favorite word she calls every one is a SNOG HEAD.

don't know where it came from, but we all think it's hilarious!

and a LOOFAH is a SOFA...what a funny bunny

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

In the Mood?

Johns favorite christmas present was this set of pillow cases i got him from Vertigo at alderwood mall...





can you blame him?



now... can you guess who sleeps on what side of the bed?


Wednesday, January 23, 2008



White Roses

From My Sweet Understanding Husband

To His Emotional Wife

Thanks Boo- You Brightened My Day Again....

Monday, January 21, 2008

The Yucks

  • Shilo has had an on and off fever of 102 since Thursday
  • I have a queasy stomach and an ear ache I am hoping goes away soon
  • Chastin has been throwing up since Sunday morning and is feverish

How will you celebrate Martin Luther King Jr. Day?

I'm guessing we'll be staying home....

Friday, January 18, 2008

letter tiles

So there it is... My newest find I am in LOVE with Town Hall Antiques Mall in Country Village!
I am going to put a black & white fam. portrait behind the 'Barnes Clan 08'.
Maybe even a couple of them in various sized frames... the S w/#2 is so perfect..I love the number 2
I couldn't resist-and picked up a bag of random letters too..mostly E's..weird? Anyway I stood and played in all her letter, number, tile, game piece space for almost an hour, leaving me with very little time to explore the rest of the store... next time

The people could be no nicer- the dealers could be no cooler! If you want it, they probably have it! I also think the prices are really great! On this same trip this week, I picked up 3 locker baskets and a vintage beverage cart! I'm in love! It even has plug ins in the end! Way retro! Way cool! So these are the new shelves John put up for me; on them is this combo too.
I am going to put one of our wedding pictures behind the date. {our wedding anniversary}
John said I was smiling ear to ear when I was telling him of all the cool stuff this place had. So I thought I would share. You all should check it out some time! {without children- so you can see everything!}


Tuesday, January 8, 2008

My 100 things

I thought it was cool to read about Mindy and Marie's 100 things and thought it would be cool to do. So here goes...wish me luck!

100. I am afraid of the water
99. Floss my teeth several times a day {and brush anytime I want to eat and it's not time}
98. Love dark chocolate raspberry chocolates from See's
97. I met my husband right across the street from where we live now.
96. I am disorganized when it comes to my scrapbook stuff
95. Have a goal of being able to run 5 miles in a row {some day}
94. Total night owl - at 1am I am just starting to unwind
93. Love to sleep till 10am on Saturdays
92. Used to play the piano
91. Wish I could find my talent
90. Insecure in just about any way possible
89. Always trying new hair products from the salon
88. Worrywart
87. I have 1 half brother
86. And three step brothers once removed
85. Have always wanted a big family
84. Goal for now is to watch a few movies a month and get caught up on all the cool movies I've never seen
83. Just saw Dirty Dancing for the first time
82. I love warm weather
81. One day John and I will have our own slice of heaven- in Montana
80. I think Vince Vaughn is hot! { I have an ex boyfriend that looks like him}
79. I am almost 9 years younger than John
78. I have been to the Bahamas twice
77. Gained 60 pounds with Chastin
76. I change my hair color ALL THE TIME!
75. I need change- move furniture, rearrange counter tops and so forth
74. Have a tendency to over think things till I go crazy
73. Watch HGTV constantly
72. I like new recipes, so we don't have to eat the same thing over and over every month
71. I receive a new magazine almost daily in the mail
70. I feel the need to recycle all the time, paper, clothes, toys, furniture, bags, whatever
69. My favorite treat is Cold Stone Creamery- birthday cake remix is the best!
68. I have terrible morning sickness for the first 4 months of being pregnant
67. My second toe is longer than the rest of my toes! On both feet!
66. I mostly wear t- shirts, nothing fancy
65. I am really going to need a tummy tuck when I am done having kids
64. I hate my nose
63. I would wear heels every single day if I could
62. I am a major list maker- my whole life revolves around lists- I have lists of things that need to happen, things i wish would happen {like my step daughter living with us} grocery lists, never ending Costco lists, DI drop off lists, thank you card writing lists.... and so on
61. I never wore jewelry till I met Paige
60. The month I got pregnant with Chastin I had just purchased a whole new wardrobe for working at the salon -$1,000 down the toilet!
59. I make more money staying home with other peoples kids than I ever did at any other job
58. I miss feeling needed like you do when you go to work
57. I always worry that I over shared or offended someone
56. Together my in-laws and us make more than 2,000 dozen cookies at Christmas time
55. I like to cook
54. Hate to clean up after
53. In the ten years John and I have been together we have been alone- away from our kids for a total of 15 days! 7 of the 15 we were in Hawaii with John's sister and her husband, so not technically alone
52. My favorite church songs are: Called to Serve & Give Said The Little Stream
51. I can't spell to save my life!
50. I always wanted a big family, but never thought any one would want to marry me,{ I still struggle this}
49. I LOVE OPRAH I just think she does so much good in the world- new schools, teaching people to be "GREEN", giving cars away to the needy and building homes for the Katrina survivors. She is open to so many new things, and has struggled with a lot of the same things average people have, and she doesn't hesitate to share
48. I have been listening to The Police every day since we went to the concert last June
47. I get my love of photography from my grandfather who was a published artist
46. I could spend endless amounts of time in museums... the J Paul Getty museum in Ca. is my all time favorite! I can't wait to go back
45. All told I have been to Disneyland more than 20 times
44. I am looking forward to The Farm Chicks show in June at the Spokane Fair Grounds! Yippee! { I pick up free stuff on the side of the road a lot, and use it to add to my love of Shabby Chic furnishings}.
43. I wish my friend Crystal could do my hair every morning
42. And that my friend Laura could clean my teeth every day too
41.I have a diet coke addiction! { i get it from my mother } my addiction is so bad now that I carry my own limes with me to add to my diet coke- and the coke must come from McDonalds!
40. I need crushed ice in my life - from Dicks and Taco bell is the BEST!
39. I like to do puzzles with Alex - it drives John nutty that I pull them all apart and put them back in the box
38. Fettuccine Alfredo is my favorite food
37. I feel like I am always saying " that's not the job for me" with a smile on my face
36. I made a deal with myself to try to not say "I'm tired" constantly
35. I go to Old Navy a couple times a month
34. And Target a couple times a week
33. I like Stephens hot cocoa
32. I wish I had a sister
31. I am positive that Mathew McConaughy is NOT gay!
30. I never want to be rich- i think you lose your values and struggle more in life
29. I have been offered many chances to receive a massage, but have a fear of being naked, so i always decline the offer
28. I just signed up for Netflix and love it!
27. I wish that just once I could beat John at the gift giving/surprise thing - he always goes all out for me
26. Speaking of the number 26, I always thought that 26 would be the best year of my life {I don't know why, it just sounded good I guess} and it turned out to be the worst
25. Thursday is my favorite day of the week ~ no reason ~ just really like it
24. I like even numbers - hence the last two digits in my cell number-32, any time I can pick an even number I will
23. I have a HARD time NOT picking even numbers- if John sends me to the store for 3 cans of something I have to get 4, if I need just one new tire-I have to get 2, if the deal is buy 2 get the third free- I have to get 6...
22.I sleep on the wrong side of the bed to me, but John got there first and so I was left with the other side :)
21. I think short hair is much more flattering on women than long
20. When I travel, I have to bring a hair dryer and Paul Mitchel freeze and shine, or the whole trip sucks!
19. I tried boogie boarding in Hawaii - check #100- that was a big deal! I even went out on a boat and got dropped in the middle of nowhere to snorkel because I believe you only live once, and had I not tried it I would have regretted it forever.
18. I really, really, dislike having my picture taken, but I know one day my kids will want to look back and see what grandma Barnes looked like.
17. referring to # 18- I can't wait to be a grandma
16. my goal for right now is to either be a single digit size or be pregnant- but no more of being in between
15. My kids are dying for me to go make dinner right now
14. The wedding ring i wear is not my real ring, the real one is too big for my finger right now
13. I need water by my bed side table every night, and if I run out- John goes down stairs and gets me more so my feet don't get cold
12. I love bamboo sheets!!!!!!! I will sleep with nothing else on my bed anymore. It must be bamboo!
11. I personally sleep with roughly 5 pillows
10. This was easier than I thought it would be
9. Method Cleaning products are all we use to clean anything any more
8. I have an addiction to chap stick, plain black wrapper chap stick
7. I am allergic to all lipstick * see number 8
6.I had my first cavity at 24 years old { probably due to all the flossing & brushing}
5. I go to Mariners games to eat and people watch- NOT BECAUSE I ENJOY THE GAME!
4. I didn't wear glasses till I was 25
3. I never found the joy in reading as a kid- it took till I was about 22 or 23 to start to read all kinds of books that people suggested. {f.y.i I used to only read short stories and non fiction, so I'm glad that I have branched out or I would have missed several good books lately- such as: the secret life of bees, the mermaid chair, a million little pieces, the twilight series, and the Amish books I just finished}
2. I collect Nativity Scenes
1. I can not NOT not stand ungroomed eyebrows!
I just want to pin the person down and wax & tweeze the daylights out of them! I tweeze my husbands and oldest sons brows so they aren't the men you see on the road that have unibrow!
No straggly, straight, sticking out every where ungroomed brows! Yuck-O!

I think the challenge should have been to list something like 125 or 150 things about yourself.
So I have just a few more to add...if your not too bored..read on.
~ would like to learn to sew or be crafty in some matter
~ feel like if my bed is made, the room is 'clean' to some degree
~when I grow up I want to be a mortician.... let that sink in for a moment..yes that means I want to do dead peoples hair and make-up
~I have a bee in my bonnet about wanting to go to N.Y for our wedding anniversary in June, because hopefully I will be home with a baby next year at that time:)
~ I think the Amish are amazing
~A boyfriend asked me to marry him when I was 17, I left him at the Olive Garden in Lynnwood, and no, I don't feel bad.
~ I call my 89 year old grandma every Sunday night
~~~and last but not least~
I sleep with a baby blanket that my Mom in law gave me when I was pregnant the third time, it seems to comfort me to sleep each night.